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I have a belated feminist revelation: Women don't demand raises and promotions, because we're trained to sit pretty and let someone else chase us. ") We lay down some ground rules for the threesome. I'm tired of putting on makeup every time I go to meet her, and I'm running out of dresses. You need to work out what it is and help her with it." On my way to the third meeting, I decide to loosen up and be less calculating.